What is the Best Way to Raise Children? Here are Top Tips…

In this modern age, parenting has become quite challenging. Everyone is confused as to what is best for kids. Too many choices, are making us out of our brains most of the times. Top that with too many advice givers and half the time this advice are totally opposite of what is a healthy parenting trait. So here we bring you best tips to raise super healthy, confident and productive members of society.

Stop treating your kids as your property

Treat children been given to you to mentor & bring out the best in them

First of all, treat them as future citizens or humans who are here with you on this planet, than just your kids. This will always remind you of the bigger picture that they are here for. Most of the times, parents feel, kids are their personal property and they want to keep their kids off themselves, spoiling them to the core. Listen to every demand they throw. Well take easy on this habit and always keep this in mind, as if you have been given a child to mentor by God, who has to be returned back to God, as perfectly well groomed human being. This is really amazing, view put forth by Baba Ram Rahim.


Never scare them, when you are pushing them to do a task.

As we have seen, in the old school parenting, parents are seen, scaring their kids, for every single activity. Do this or ghost will come, or Do this fast, or a big wolf will come etc. This hinders a child’s ability to fully explore his potential, exhorts Gurmeet Ram Rahim Ji.


Always set good examples, yourselves

This has been a very common point in parenting. But how do we accomplish this? Simply by being yourself, or identifying those behaviors which you do not want in your kids, and removing those from yourselves first.

Leave the best wealth for your kids, Values

Teach them good values, at every instance. Honesty, integrity, handwork has no substitute. This they need to know early on, do not let them be okay with compromising on any of these. Reward consistency. Also, connect them to spirituality and meditation to achieve the above traits. Initially, you can reward them to meditate until they form a habit, says Gurmeet Ram Rahim.

So certain traits, mindful living, unconditional love, and acceptance can do wonders for kids. Treat them as friends and never let fear develop in your relationship with your kids. If your kids take you as your best friends, you have done a decent job.

Followers of Baba Ram Rahim take new pledges everyday to do something good for Society

The countless number of people, the Planet is almost on the verge of suffocating, with the mammoth amount of people all over. Yet, what is surprising is there are people dying in need of Blood. People with disabilities, have to manage somehow with those challenges. 

With the population so huge, if each one of us looks out for the weak, and challenged, World would definitely turn into a walk in a park. With each one of us making it our responsibility to donate blood regularly, donating our eyes, organs posthumous. Even if a fraction of the World, follows these as their responsibility, we would be able to witness heaven right here. Although In one part of the Nation, this heaven truly exists. And that is in Haryana, Sirsa and the neighborhoods. This part of the country is blessed to have a Guru like Gurmeet Ram Rahim whose teachings have indeed transformed millions. 

The followers of Dera Sacha Sauda, celebrate the birth month of their Masters, by taking pledges to fight against evils, both their own inner evils, hogging them as habits and external evils too, like corruption, prostitution, female feticide etc. January being the birth month of the 2nd Master of Dera Sacha Sauda, so this month is high on pledges already, by followers all over the Globe. Social media is replete with everyday pledges taken by the followers, to express their desire to bring good qualities in them, and fighting off their evils.

You will be pleasantly surprised to know how these followers of this spirited and brave heart Guru, are transforming the society. These followers, including females, elderly, transgenders, donate blood every 3 months. They have filled pledges for the same. And also filled body and organ donation forms in laces. What’s more these volunteers have filled the forms for kidney donation, while still being alive, to continue with single kidney. Thousands of such crazy followers exist today also, who are ready to save lives, risking their own. These guys get a huge sense of fulfillment and bliss, while following the path of serving Society, as Baba Ram Rahim Exhorts in Satsangs. 

With more of such committed members of Society, we can be assured of a bright future for our generations. But we need to come forward with our dedicated efforts too, to change the landscape. If only each one of us, wants a better world and ready to get up for the same, can we have promising future, as Baba Ram Rahim points out. By the way, it is his mission to crush every evil hogging the World today. Be it alcholism, Drug Addiction, Prostitution, Dowry, Female feticide, corruption, selfish deeds, every single one of them.

Millions have realised the true purpose of life and pledged against the above evils. Even rural areas, have transformed into more meaningful and loving spaces, thanks to the efforts of Baba Ram Rahim Ji. And Dera Sacha Sauda is the only organisation holding close to 80 world records for humanitarian causes. Let us take a small pledge today, to be there, for others, keeping our day to day affairs aside, at least once a week, or an hour every day. This small contribution can change the face of our planet.

Happiness long lost dream? Here’s how to stay happy Forever

We all are running behind happiness and although nobody knows the right definition of this term, everybody is running after their own version of this word. For some, this means money, more and more of it. For some, it’s their dreams, for some its good food, good fun-filled life.

But almost all of us are getting this term wrong. As Gurmeet Ram Rahim often states,

What you are looking for is “pleasures” not happiness. Cause all these will give you momentary “happiness” which are in fact, pleasures. Although momentary doesn’t mean for a moment, it could be a day a week, a month, but the point being, it is not long lasting. This lasts only for as long as you don’t cling to another version of happiness, like a job, marriage, kids etc. So that is why the saying, happiness is a state of mind holds true. We all may have our list of things to do, or achieve and still be happy.

Our happiness is not dependent to the long list of unachieved dreams. Instead, happiness lies at the moment. It means the absence of dwelling on a single thing and looking at life as a whole package. And the best form of happiness is living every moment being in the present, not wandering in past, or trying to catch the future. It is just being in the moment, doing what you are doing the best way you can. Baba Ram Rahim’s amazing recourse to this, meditating on God’s words, with pranayama Focusing on your breath, and meditation alongside is the best resort to living in the moment.

It could be simple things, like driving, or household chores or job-related chores. Just put your heart and mind into it, as if time has stopped. And time will stop for you giving you the moment of your life. And another way to get used to this form of life is helping others as much as you can. This is another of Baba Ram Rahim’s wonderful tips to all, to serve the society as much as you can, and you will get long lasting happiness from these acts of kindness. In fact, his followers are like living in another blissful planet, their faces are as fresh as fresh lilies, after a hard day of work, or even after cleaning the streets filled with filth and litter.

Serving God’s children is, after all, the best way to please God himself. Isn’t it as the chief of Dera Sacha Sauda, Baba Ram Rahim points out in his Satsangs that if you help a child, their parents, naturally are happy with you? Now helping God’s children, won’t that make God himself happy with you? He will for sure, and you’ve got the World on your side, with the creator by your side.

So go ahead, adopt meditation, pranayama and helping others as the mantra for long-lasting happiness.


Unique Army of Volunteers

This unique Army of volunteers is ready to fight hunger, fire, earthquakes, and disasters, across borders.

We all know how much-serving others, is the biggest source of happiness in these times of negativity and stress. While some have identified, this and are trying their best, to spread happiness and get their own stock of happiness in return, many others, are still ignorant about this huge resource. Yes, our true happiness resides in spreading the same. We need to realize that as a human race, our sole purpose is to uplift every life. Bring them out of their dire states, and in return that gives us an infinite source of happiness.

Once all of us understand this, people will find true heaven for themselves. True heaven resides within us, with infinite possibilities. But we need to dig it out, through service and selfless love. A voluntary force, that is working towards this, Shah Satnam Ji Green S welfare force wing, instituted by Baba Ram Rahim Ji. With more than 70000 volunteers, this is probably the world’s biggest force of volunteers. These volunteers are ready to give everything just to serve their fellow countrymen. Traveling for days, to rescue victims of disasters, like earthquakes, floods, fire etc. these volunteers don’t want to miss a single chance of serving lives. These are the same volunteers who were dubbed suicide squad by the Media, during media trial, after conviction of Baba Ram Rahim.

Yes, these volunteers are even ready to take lives, but their own. They fill affidavits, which clearly state, that they would themselves be responsible in case something happens to them, while on a relief and rescue mission. Dressed in a khaki, with white, reflectors on both sides, these volunteers, are seen helping the Army, the authorities and even on their own, on almost all disaster sites. Any fire breakout or building collapse, they are mostly the first to reach the spots, to arrange for blood, evacuation etc. Amritsar Train Tragedy, Kerala floods, Chennai floods, this army is ready for all such untoward incidents. This welfare force was instituted in 1990 to tackle the growing number of natural disasters and provide a helping hand to authorities by none other than Gurmeet Ram Rahim himself.

Every training is given to these volunteers to tackle any circumstance, even constructing houses, boats, tackling snakes, fire training, underwater training. Each and every volunteer is passionate about his duty and can skip everything to be there to help. They are only paid in terms of blessings, and these guys reach the spots, far and wide, with their own pocket money. It’s beyond fathomed, what makes this unique force, so passionate and dedicated to serving others. The answer may be what we stated earlier, true happiness. One that can only be experienced when one dons the hat himself. It is like how can a dumb person describes the taste of nectar, one needs to only taste it.

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